When I first discovered the coaching world, it was SO new and exciting to me.
Wait…. I can get paid to do what I’ve already been doing? Helping people, giving advice, and seeing them at their highest potential?
Sign me up. Right now. Thank you very much.
But then it hit me…
The fear. The panic. Feeling FROZEN.
I felt confused and overwhelmed with how to actually run a successful coaching session that someone would want to pay me for.
I was constantly asking myself questions like:
“How can I be sure I can help my clients make a shift?”
“Who am I to coach someone else?”
“What do I say in a session?”
“What if they ask me something I don’t know the answer to?”
These questions swirled around my head. They haunted me. They distracted me.
I kept myself small for so much longer than I needed to.
What I’ve learned is that when a coach has fears about delivering for their clients, they WILL self-sabotage when it comes to attracting high-paying clients in the first place.
Who has ever felt like this?
If you’re there, I get it.
And I got your back.
But you will NOT stay there. I promise.
I used to feel stuck and confused, and I’ve built a globally-known brand that impacts and changes the lives of thousands.
If I can do it, you can too.
So here are 3 tips for rocking a successful coaching session, and helping your clients create huge transformations- fast.
Three Coaching Must-Knows to Upgrade and Elevate your Coaching Sessions.
1. Look past what they are saying- Go Deep!
It’s really rare that what the problem the client has is the real problem. The problem that the client typically sees is the physical manifestation, and example in the real world of the mindset issue, limited belief, or feeling of inadequacy within.
What I learned is that a client who can’t make money in their business has a much deeper problem than that- they do not see their worth
A client who can’t grow their social media presence has a bigger problem than they- they are afraid to take up space and let their voice be heard
And a client who is having issues in their relationships with their partners and friends, hasn’t seen their own value, has not created standards and boundaries which is why everyone in their family, and friendships finds it easy to hold them down, and walk all over them.
As a coach, you see what the client does not see.
You hold massive space for them to be at their best, and you are their mirror helping them check the shit that’s hiding in their blind spots so they can process, and progress.
Damn, I like that- Process and Progress.
2. Distinguish Your Clients’ Energetic Set Point
All the issues that clients have in their life are because their energetic set point is resting on that level.
And if we want to help our clients create massive shifts, and quickly, we must dive deep to help them change the story they are telling themselves that defines their energetic set point.
Take money for example.
If someone is only earning $3000 a month- that is their energetic set point. They can try to hustle and change that, and they might see an increase briefly, but eventually they will go back to their natural set point until they create the inner shifts.
These energetic set points are the reason why some millionaires can lose it all, yet somehow (almost like magic) they can make it all back in a matter of months.
Where some people win the lottery and within a year spend their entire winnings.
They had a set point for how much money they were allowed to have.
And these set points are applicable in every area of our life- from how your clients allow people to treat them, to how successfully they achieve their health and fitness goals.
If you want to create a change with your clients, don’t settle on getting them to ‘do things differently’ peer into what they are really saying, get clear on the recurring situations that they seem to get in to (or create for themselves) and recognize those patterns.
The only way to create a new energetic set point is to break the past ones, shatter and destroy those patterns that are holding them down and create new ones.
Identify the patterns, see what causes them, get it on a new path, and watch magic happen in your client’s lives.
3. Get equipped to make the shifts
As a powerful coach, you ask powerful questions to lead your clients to the answers that they already know deep down inside.
You help them bring up to the surface the most powerful version of them.
The one that shines their light. The part of them that knows what they want, and goes after it. The part of them that is energized, feels in flow, knows that they are supported, and feels FULLY comfortable being FULLY present in their own skin, saying what they want, how they want it, and knowing they TRULY deserve it.
That in itself is powerful.
But what if you could bypass the conscious mind, and speak directly to the subconscious mind?
The subconscious mind is where the powerful shifts happen, and the conscious mind is the gate keeper.
What if you could get in there to transform, elevate, break up the bullshit and build up your clients in alignment with the person they want to be.
The tools that help you create shifts like crazy are the ones that tap into the subconscious – Your connection to infinite intelligence, spirit and your true self.
My favorite modalities for tapping into the subconscious are Hypnotherapy, and NLP. My favourite ways to tap into the energy of your clients and help them make shifts are energy work, reiki, and EFT.
And if you’ve never heard of these before, or you want to learn more about how to create massive shifts in people’s lives using the power of deep mindset work, and energy- read on.
Are you ready to Elevate your sessions?
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