I have worked with quite a few relationship coaches and I love showing them how to combine people, manifest, and attract love with the power of our subconscious mind. Most people think that in order to attract love, they have to go out and chase it. What they don’t notice is that, a lot of the time, people are actually resisting love and resisting the relationships that could be available to them, and they are resisting it because of their own beliefs and judgment. Becoming a powerful relationship coach means that you know how to work with the subconscious mind and manifestation tools.
I have worked with coaches in the YES SUPPLY Method coaching certification program like Vanessa, who, on her very first coaching call ever, attracted a $2500 client! Or Paulian, who scaled her business up to $10,000+ in her relationship coaching business, where she heavily uses Emotional Freedom Techniques, which she had learned from the YES SUPPLY program. The beautiful thing about becoming a relationship coach is you can have so much fun with it, create so much freedom in your life, while talking about the most powerful force in the universe – love.
I always tell my clients and students that I’m a great manifestation coach and relationship coach because I have helped so many people with relationships. I have helped people manifest their dream partner in record time. Manifesting love doesn’t have to be hard, but sadly there are so many people in the world who just don’t know what it takes. That is why the world needs more relationship coaches like you. If you are sitting there in your chair or couch reading this blog, dreaming about becoming a relationship coach, I want you to know that you are in the perfect place.
There is a huge desire for good relationship coaches who are serious about the work that they do. I want you to know that because you have that deep desire in your soul to become a relationship coach, that means it is your destiny to become one. You are brought on this path for a powerful reason. Once you get started and put yourself out there by sharing your stories and lessons, you’re bound to become the best of the best!
Question: Why become a relationship coach?
The world that we live in is getting lonelier. Even though it feels like we are more connected because of the Internet, people actually tend to feel more separated than ever before. It’s harder to start new conversations because our phones are a distraction. With all of the dating apps out there, there’s often a feeling that people are disposable, because getting into a new relationship or finding a hookup has become so “transactional” in the 2020s. When you become a relationship coach and you show people the magic formula to finding the perfect partner, your clients will be so grateful and will be willing to spend whatever it takes to hire you to find the love of their lives.
It’s a tough world in terms of loneliness because you can pick-up your phone and instantly see somebody who just bought a house with their husband, or someone who just got married, and it creates this deep feeling of jealousy and inadequacy. When somebody is feeling this way, the signal that they are sending out is so negative and has so much resistance, that it would be hard for them to find a suitable partner. In order to attract the partner of your dreams, you need to be in good alignment. I want to throw away the belief that your partner completes you, but instead reinstate the idea that when two complete people come together and form a bond, that is the most powerful relationship that you can get.
Let’s talk about what to do if you want to become a successful relationship coach.
Step 1: Learn the power of the subconscious mind
If somebody deeply wants a relationship but it’s not showing up in their life, it is because they have some kind of unconscious programming, habits, behaviors, or beliefs that are blocking them from having the relationship that they want. Do you want to become a standout and successful relationship coach and be able to pinpoint exactly what your client’s problem is? Then, you must learn the power of the subconscious mind. You’ll learn all about the power of the subconscious mind in the YES SUPPLY Method Coaching Certification. When you graduate from this program, you’ll receive certifications in Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP), Hypnosis, Life and Success Coaching, EFT, and TIME Techniques.
All of these tools combined create a powerful formula to release limitations around attracting the relationship of your dreams. However, if you do not know the power of the subconscious mind, you won’t have the tools to help your clients when they tell you their concerns.
Step 2: Understanding manifestation methods
Instead of your clients feeling like they have to go out and chase love, they can instead get into good feelings and a vibration that allows them to manifest the love that they want. Manifestation methods include helping your clients to raise their vibration, getting clear on the specific partner that it is they want to attract, visualization techniques, goal setting techniques, and action plan creating techniques. When you have all of these, you will be able to help your clients move forward to create the reality that they want on a spiritual, emotional, physical and mental plane. Learning these manifestation techniques will have your clients raving about how much you help them, because the results will show very quickly and easily when they co-create with the power of the universe.
Step 3: Sharing your own personal stories
The clients who attend my programs and pay for my high-ticket coaching tell me that they resonate with my story. There’s something that happened in my past that makes them feel connected to me. There’s something that I have gone through that helps them see that I am the best person to help them, because I have been where they currently are, and I have overcome it.
Share your stories on your relationships. Talk about a painful breakup that you have overcome. You can also talk about how you’re not afraid to make the first move. Basically, tell your clients what you have learned in your relationship journey. One thing I want you to know is that you don’t have to be in a relationship to be a successful relationship coach. In coaching, your main focus is to hold space for your clients and help them achieve their goals.
It is also important to share your learning, and I’m sure that if you’re reading this, you’re probably the type of person who gives tons of incredible advice to friends and family members on how to manifest the partner of their dreams. You might have even been told that you would be really good at being a relationship coach. The bottom line is that, for you to attract potential clients in this part of the business, you need to start sharing your life lessons. Not only through family and friends, but start writing articles or making videos, and make use of today’s technology. Go and show everyone how good you are at what you do. Before you know it, you will have people banging on your door wanting to hire you for your services.
Step 4: Have fun
Be in the energy of love and remember that when you show up as the most magnetic and powerful version of you, you become such a great example for your clients. Have fun while embodying the sexy, feminine, and magnetic relationship coach that you are. Just by being that version of you, you will show your clients how it’s done. They are going to love being in your energy and devour even more of your content online.
Step 5: Make sure you get support
I am so grateful that I invested in coaches, courses, and masterminds to help get to where it is that I am in my life right now. I made decisions to invest in myself, not based on where I was or the amount of money in my bank account, but rather from the place of who it is that I wanted to be. I asked myself, “Would my higher self be happy that I made this investment, that I bought this certification course?” If the answer is “YES,” then I go all in. I have made a decision that for every dollar that I spend on investing in myself, I will take back $50, and I notice that this kind of thinking always works for me.
Set this rule for yourself, and remember that, in this world, we get to create our own roles and live our lives the way that we want to. By getting support, I have been able to shortcut my way to success, and I’m now having six-figure months in my business. I know that if I had tried to figure it out on my own, I’d still be wondering if I can even make money online.
If you want to get the support that you need in becoming a successful relationship coach, sign-up HERE. And if you want me to learn the steps on how to become a successful six-figure coach, please sign up for my free masterclass.
If you have any questions or other queries, please don’t hesitate to reach out by leaving comments below. I would be happy to help you along your journey! 🙂